1 Sadism & Masochism is the exchange of power through pain.<\/b>\u00a0Spanking, flogging, whipping, caning, CBT, nipple torture, even rough sex. Like feeling a little pain with your pleasure? You\u2019re a masochist. Does making someone hurt bring you pleasure? You\u2019re a sadist. Can you be both? Absolutely. I think most of us are, in subtle ways<\/p>\n
2 Topping & Bottoming is the exchange of power through sex. One of you is in control of the situation, whether it\u2019s just for this roll in the hay, or every single time with your partner. That person is topping. The passive, or controlled one is bottoming. So if it\u2019s being held down or tied up during sex, or begging for an orgasm, or edging someone until they cry\u2026 that is sexual power exchange. Can you be a top and a bottom? Oh, yes, you can. You can even do it in the same romp, if that\u2019s what works for you and your partner.<\/p>\n
3 Domination & Submission is the exchange of power through emotions and intimacy.\u00a0<\/b>D\/s (the shorthand for this) is about rules, structure, discipline, and protocol. And that can be as intense as a 24\/7 Mistress \/slave relationship, or as simple as calling your Wife Mistress and Miss just\u00a0 because she said so. In between is a WORLD of amazing ways to exchange power mentally.<\/p>\n
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I feel the need to clarify this because often ,I hear such confusions… In BDSM there are three separate forms of power exchange. In no particular order: Sadism & Masochism Topping & Bottoming Domination & Submission 1 Sadism & Masochism is the exchange of power through pain.\u00a0Spanking, flogging, whipping, caning, CBT, nipple torture, even rough…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4693","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ddl"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domdeluxury.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4693","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domdeluxury.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domdeluxury.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domdeluxury.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domdeluxury.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4693"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.domdeluxury.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4693\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4696,"href":"https:\/\/www.domdeluxury.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4693\/revisions\/4696"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.domdeluxury.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4693"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domdeluxury.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4693"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.domdeluxury.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4693"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}